Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts

9.05.2011

blink

this happens every year.
one day we are celebrating the last weeks of school with a million spring-time activities...

choir concerts
spencer sang a solo
 (no pic of allie singing?)

dance recital - beautiful dance, terrible pic

pre-school field trip

and graduation

jr.high graduation

 and lots of great lacrosse
 (this next one is of of him shooting an actual goal even though it's hard to tell)

not to mention, the musicals, which i already documented, final projects, AP and other end of year tests, and even, a new job

spring is busy, and by the last day of school, we are all jumping for joy.
literally.

because by then, we most definitely need the break.

and then,
(this is the part that happens every year...)
i blink too quickly.
and the next thing i know,
i'm making breakfast,
packing lunches
and taking first day of school photos.


and even though, it's going to be a BIG, awesome, exciting year for each one of the kids, 
i just can't believe that
 summer is over.
 wow.

8.12.2011

five for friday, again

five for friday seems to be a good fit for me right now since everything during the summer feels so miscellaneous and random. and it helps me document the little things, which is really what i want to get down on "paper" any way.  here goes....

1. allie and james (her cousin) have always had a great friendship, they seem to be a perfect balance for each other. maybe because they seem to bring out the super silly in each other - i love watching them interact at family gatherings, they make me giggle and wonder what they will be like as adults. i was surprised by these funny photos that appeared on my camera this week.

2. we have a few extra littles at our house this weekend while their mom and dad are out of town. i love it when ethan has other people in the house that aren't adults or teenagers to hang out with. they always have so much fun. what is better than coloring books, sprinklers, trampoline time, legos, polly pockets and pancakes for dinner? 

3. this little family snapshot (thanks lisa), makes me smile because i love seeing my kids so grown up. 
this little family snapshot makes me feel surprised because i can't believe my kids are so grown up. 
this little family snapshot makes my heart hurt a little because my kids are so grown up! 
this little family snapshot makes me feel...SHORT. good grief. it doesn't help that i'm the only one who took her shoes off. i'm telling you, hold onto your little ones ladies, it happens way too fast.

4. real men wear aprons. i LOVE seeing these boys in aprons. especially TIES and aprons. 
i don't know why but it makes my heart swell with pride. :) maybe because there's something so handsome about a man who's not afraid to be a little domestic. 

5. i planted a small garden this year. i wasn't sure what i could grow so i only put in a few things, but i've learned a ton. like, don't buy cheap tomato cages because they fall down and/or fall apart, plant tomatoes far away from each other so they don't start looking like one giant plant, label everything (at least one plant is going to be a surprise when it finally produces something) and....one squash plant is pleeeenty. 
it's been super fun "harvesting" squash because every day there's a new basket of it, but really, we can only eat it so many ways. i am super super excited to have a handful of ripe tomatoes! squash anyone?

7.04.2011

crashin' through the corn - a spring flash back

as part of a re-occurring series on my blog, i will be having a spring flashback periodically to try and document a little of the spring we lost to busy-ness and lame computer woes. this is the first installment.

we have a favorite musical at my house, one that we've been listening to the sound track of since my kids were in their respective wombs. our favorite part is of the musical is at the end, when the whole cast sings
O-K-L-A-H-O-M-A OKLAHOOOOOOOO-MA! YA!
it gives me goose bumps.
truly.
all that talk of belonging to the land and a farmer with his brand new wife, the whole thing just makes me happy. all of us actually.
i love that it makes my kids happy too.
plus who doesn't love a musical title that ends with an exclamation point?
oklahoma!
you see the title on the front of your play bill and you just know you're going to have a good time.

lucky for us, it was the jr.high music theater production which meant spencer and allie got to be a part of all the fun this year. spencer was especially excited that there were so many kissing opportunities, too bad for him, he didn't get any of those roles.

however, spencer did play the most handsome cowboy ever, i especially loved his authentic chaps on loan from patsy's son brian. it was especially fun to see spencer dance - i loved the kansas city number the best when all the cowboy boots were making so much noise and all the boys were so out of their element but having a great time any way.

unfortunately, i didn't get too many live shots of allie - because of her heavy dance schedule, she was primarily teacher's assistant but did manage to weasel her way into a couple of dance numbers and she was great! and grandma saved the day for us with a beautiful dress that she made special just for allie.

it wasn't just the kids having hectic rehearsal schedule, i also stayed plenty busy with this production with a big job of my own. i was in charge of costumes. ok, stop laughing, really, i can sew a straight line!  ok no, not really. but i DO know how to gather and organize and make a million trips to good will, which i did, and it was hard. and it took a ton of time, but it all turned out so great (the whole production, not just my costumes), that it was worth it and it made me feel proud to have been part of  such an awesome production.

and you know, where i am, ethan is also, so oklahoma became a big part of his daily life as well. he loved this production and the cast loved him right back, he was always the hit of every rehearsal, even the director declared him her "favorite moore".  he sat completely enthralled at all but one of the performances with me. i think his favorite part was kansas city too because he loved the cowboys, and took to wearing his red boots around all over the place for a few weeks. but his favorite song which you can even still now here him singing, is "oh the farmer and the cowman should be friends..." which is so precious.

he also loved that my van was full of different costume pieces here and there for about three months and took advantage of these things often. once with cousins when we were playing a the park.
there's something so great about little boys in giant cowboy boots.

after every performance, he was subjected to the girls leaving their heavily lipsticked kisses on his cheeks, but he didn't seem to mind this too much.

over all i would say it was a great experience for everyone and a really fantastic show.
now with pimpernel over for taylor, and oklahoma! over for the jr. high, i'm excited to take a music theater break for a while, until next year....

as a side note, a funny oklahoma related story....
several years ago while on a long road trip to arizona, oklahoma! the movie was playing in the DVD player and everyone was singing along. my SIL april starts singing, "oooook-lahoma where the wind comes crashin' through the corn!"  of course, we all busted out laughing because those are definitely not the words, but now, in our family, they sort of are because we sing apey's version of it all the time.
i love that apey girl.

2.22.2011

fashion statement

while i was sick this weekend
i was grateful for my sweet husband who ran the household
while i slept
and coughed
and slept
and puked
and slept some more.
at one point i emerged from my bedroom to look for the heaven-sent ibuprophen
and on my way to the kitchen, i came upon this bold fashion statement:

the top half of his ensemble says, "ride like the wind bullseye!"
the bottom half says, "i like monkeys"
and the footwear says, "my mother is sick and i have no supervision today".
in other words,
one more reason i hope i don't die prematurely.

or at least until ethan knows how to put together a decent outfit.
or at least until he knows how to match his socks.

2.10.2011

perfection or nothing

this girl...
is lovely
caring
delightful
bubbly
beautiful
friendly
talented
curious
hard working
SMART
did i mention lovely?

and i adore her
but she is also
a perfectionist
which can be kind of rough

because she has a very full schedule
there's just not enough TIME during the week
to devote to cleaning her room the way she wants it to be clean
on saturdays when she does clean it, it can take HOURS - for real.
because every little thing has to be organized and reorganized to death
during the week, there's no time for such details
which means she doesn't clean it at all
so usually looks something like this...
sort of a "perfection or nothing" approach
saturdays are perfection,
weekdays are nothing

and when i said being a perfectionist can be kind of rough -
i meant rough on ME
because in this house, her room is what i see across the hall
every time i leave my room
and it makes me completely insane to see this mess
all
the
time.

but really, i've mostly tried to make peace with it
because if that's the worst thing, i'll take it
so i try not to nag her too much about the room
i said try
because i know it's just not that important in the grand scheme of things
and she's so lovely, i'll take her perfectionist or nothing room
especially over, you know, piercings and drugs and worse.

with that said,
a few weeks ago, i learned something new about my girl...
this girl
this darling, beautiful, lovely, talented, perfectionist with a messy room....
will do
ANYTHING
including cleaning her room in the middle of the week
WITHOUT BEING ASKED
for a chance...

to drive
and if you think i'm not taking advantage of this, you're wrong.

12.10.2010

zoolander

you would think that the older my kids get,
the easier trying to take their photo would be.
i mean, they're MY children after all.
it's not like i don't ever take their photo.
it's not like they haven't practiced this a million times.
or even more.

but it's always the same routine.
they pose for a few "nice" shots.
and then just as we're getting into it,
spontaneously, they all break out into their alter egos,
and any control i had of the shoot, magically disappears.

there are always "super model" poses...
although, really, i don't know what magazine they could possibly be posing for.
freaks are us?

there are always "kung fu" moves...
but i'm pretty sure the big fat panda would be just be embarrassed for them right here.

and of course, funny (a.k.a. dorky) faces...
but really,
i don't think i would have it any other way.
because they kind of crack me up.

except when it's december and i'm freezing and want to get into the house.